In a time when the world has reached the height of technology, it’s a shame that society lacks in social protocol. As many return to the days of martinis and dinner parties, the etiquette that accompanied all of this is left behind.
Sadly, many men associate good etiquette with being a whimp. In fact, the opposite if true. Check out a person who is seen as a gentleman. He will have certain unmistakable qualities. He is very well liked among his working colleagues. Just as important, he is constantly chased by women. He is calm, low key, and very cool. This is not a coincidence.
Unfortunately, a true gentleman is hard to find these days. One reason for this is the way gentlemen are viewed. They are not looked upon with the same admiration as in the past. Yet, many men want the same lifestyle and popularity that a gentleman has.
Here’s good news! You can turn yourself into a gentleman without being a weak person. In fact, strength is one of the attributes of a gentleman. Although he doesn’t throw he weight around, a gentleman is one of the strongest people around. If this is the type of person you want to be, the follow me. Let’s get started now!
You don’t have to turn into a robot to be a gentleman. Just follow these basic tips, and you’ll be on your way. Be polite. Show that you’re the better man no matter who the other person is. Even if he is someone you don’t like, don’t lower yourself to his level.
Don’t curse. This is never a good thing to do. All it shows is you lack the vocabulary to properly express yourself. Besides, it’s crude, vulgar, and impolite.
Don’t talk loudly. This raises everyone’s stress level. It gives the impression you can’t reason with people and you have to use force to get you point across.
Don’t loose your temper. Doing this only proves that you can’t control your emotions. If you can’t do that, how can you control anything else in your life?
Don’t stare. Staring is an act of psychological aggression. Doing this can intimidate people.
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